questions frequently asked

I’m really attracted to a good friend of mine and would like to get something going, but I’m afraid to mess up our friendship!
-kauri- you should try it. if it doesn't work out, that shouldn't change anything. if he/she acts weird around you, maybe they're not sure if he/she still likes you, or they're not as great of a friend that you thought they were. take a chance. and make a wish..

My boyfriend is verbally abusive and the things he says make me feel small, insecure and unworthy... what should I do?
-kauri- talk with a trusted adult or a really good friend. if he makes you feel bad. you shouldn't have to deal with that. if your going out, then he should love you as much as you love him. if not, it's off-beat. like a one-sided crush. it won't last long. all it dose is create stress. or have a serious talk with him, telling him he shouldn't call you names or hurt you in any form. verbal abuse can turn into things much worse.

My parents don’t like the person that I love because of race, age, religion, etc. - what can I do to make them to see things my way?
-kauri- you should show them what an amazing person you lover is. and prove he's better than what they are calling him or saying about his race,age,religion,ect. you should invite your lover over for dinner with the parents. maybe then, they will feel more confident and comfortable about who your dating.

I’m so depressed and sad because everyone I know has somebody to love but me... how can I find a boyfriend or girlfriend of my own?
-kauri- you shouldn't just get a boyfriend or a girlfriend just because your lonely. if you want to date someone it should b for love. not just on a whim. but keep your eyes open. the guy you bummed into at the library, the girl on the subway. find someone you love.

I’m crazy in love with someone that barely knows I exist! How do I get him/her to fall in love with me?
-kauri- get some basic common interests. like art, or a certain band. just start bumping in them everywhere. [don't stalk them] be like" Hey, that new movie comes out this weekend, did you want to see it with me?" things will fall into place. just get noticed. c:


I’m beginning to fall in love with someone I met online.. is it possible to have feelings for someone you’ve never seen, touched, dated?
-kauri- your falling in love with what they're saying. in my opinion, you should meet. just not alone. that would be dangerous. even if your an adult. people can be missleading on the internet.

I love two guys. they are both amazing people. which one should i choose?
-kauri- your falling in love with two guys. one way, is to wait it out. see who asks you out first. or choose the guy who you could tell him anything. the one you trust with your life and a friends life. Be that confident. Or maybe the guy who makes your face hurt because you laugh so much around him. it's really not my choice to make. but go with the guy you would risk you life for.